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The Miracle of
Helping Hands

by Mike Litrel, M.D.

asked: Who knew what dead things floating to shore created sand dunes? The instructor drew a picture of a log on the blackboard to give the children a hint.

"People from Cuba?" Sam Smith shouted out.

His comment was gruesome, inappropriate, and not well received. I wished I had thought of it.

So we spent the days collecting seashells and fossils and watching the dolphins. We played basketball and frisbee dodge ball. We looked at plankton under the microscope. We caught crabs in the marsh mud. We petted snakes and turtles and baby alligators, and learned the difference between a coral and king snake. At night we played charades by the campfire, ate s'mores, then fought to catch some sleep. And each morning we complained about who coughed, who tossed and turned, and who snored.

In short, we had a blast. Janis and Dianne are wonderful teachers. They love their work, and their students. The six-hour bus ride home found a lot of children wearing joyful smiles of satisfaction.

But the smiles faded into concern and confusion when we stopped at the accident. The smoking car was crushed, overturned like a turtle for all to see. As I approached the car, I had the sensation of wrongness - it just didn't seem right that this perfect trip should be marred with something so tragic.

However, twenty feet from the flattened car lay an elderly gentleman on the road - the driver. As he explained it, he had become dizzy right after his dialysis treatment, and had lost control of the car. It had flipped across the median several times, throwing him through the window just before its last crushing flip. Other bystanders had already dressed his lacerations. With the help of another chaperone, Jerry Blanton, I examined him. Amazingly, the 77 year-old man wanted to sit up. He had no serious injuries that I could identify. We covered him with a blanket belonging to a fellow parent, Lisa Kavadellas. It was a "HUGS" blanket, made for the crafts fair at Hillside United Methodist Church. Covering the blanket was a pattern of hundreds of little handprints - helping hands, if you will.

The ambulance arrived, carrying off the man and the blanket. We boarded the bus and left. I cleaned the blood off of me, and then I reassured our kids that the man would be okay.

As it turned out, I was right. The gentleman, whose name was Nathaniel, would leave the hospital the next day. The trauma nurse at the hospital laughed and told me that Nathaniel had only needed a few band-aids.

As the dust settled on these events, I had two realizations. One was that a better chaperone would have led the children in a prayer after the accident - for the well-being of the man injured in the pathway of our bus. Stunned by the miracle on the highway, I simply forgot. But it is never too late to pray. And prayers of gratitude are always appropriate.

And the other was this:

God had a bus load of helping hands that day. The exuberant children were like noisy angels playing in the orchestra of a miracle. With that kind of power on board, there was no way a man thrown on the highway in front of a bus would come to harm.

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Dr. Litrel is a surgeon in private practice with Cherokee Women's Health Specialists in Woodstock and Canton. He is a Clinical Professor at Emory Medical School and the Medical College of Georgia. Dr. Litrel lives in Woodstock with his wife Ann and their two sons, Tyler and Joseph. (mikelitrel@attbi.com)

Recently, I chaperoned a school field trip to Tybee Island. Our bus was on the way home when it stopped smack in the middle of Interstate 16. Engrossed in a book, I didn't give it a second thought. For the past three days, the fourth grade classes of Janis Micali and Dianne McClure had been learning the ecology of Tybee Island's beaches and marshes. I myself had been learning how to ignore screaming children.

The earplugs were working just fine.

I pulled out the earplugs when one of the other chaperones gestured to me. There had been an accident, she told me. I looked, and up ahead, a sedan was overturned in the middle of the highway, its roof and hood smashed flat. Two summers spent in an autopsy room provided me with a vivid mental image of the carnage I would soon confront.

It had been three long years ago when I had first agreed to chaperone this trip. My son Tyler had been in first grade, and back then, it had been easy to say "yes" - I'll agree to anything a thousand days in advance. But as the trip approached and my responsibilities became more real, I did everything to wriggle out of it.

It was no good. Tyler wouldn't bite, and I had promised.

I am probably not the best chaperone. My philosophy of child rearing is simple. Keep children safe, clean, and reasonably well fed. Manners are good, anything else is extra. But it dawned on me that maybe I had a problem when Tyler whispered to me conspiratorially, "This is gonna be so much fun, Dad - THREE WHOLE DAYS with nobody telling us what to do!"

Other chaperones had different philosophies. Small group outdoor lessons were serious experiences, no goofing tolerated. My feeling is that if you put a bunch of kids in a marsh and surround them with fiddler crabs and periwinkles, you're going to get some excitement. Enforcing silence is like trying to get a dog not to wag its tail. It can be done - but it's not that much fun, and it upsets the dog.

However, when a mom went so far as to switch her son out of our "obnoxious" group, I began to think maybe I should run a tighter ship.

There was only one other child as obnoxious as Tyler. I'm not certain who was worse, but I know Sam Smith was more clever. As we discussed theformation of sand dunes, the instructor

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